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I Like to Read: The Paris Wife and Z: A Novel of Zelda Fitzgerald

16 October 2013
It should be no secret by now that I enjoy a good story. Many of my life's passions can be boiled down to my love of stories, whether it be books, art, podcasts, travel, or people. The best way to connect with me and form a solid relationship is to share your stories with me.

And thus I love reading. And I love reading about writers and the people they loved. Perhaps that is my greater interest- the story of the lover behind the writer. Which is why I read both The Paris Wife and Z: A Novel of Zelda Fitzgerald almost back-to-back.

Let me tell you, reading these two stories back-to-back is an excellent choice. Both stories leave you wanting more. Perhaps I should explain.


The Paris Wife is about Hadley Richardson, the first wife of Ernest Hemingway, and Z is about Zelda Fitzgerald, F. Scott Fitzgerald's wife. Both of these women are fascinating characters who were involved in tragic marriages with two of America's best writers of the early 20th century.

While reading The Paris Wife, I was transported to 1920's Paris. You all know how much I love Paris, so this book was a welcome vessel of return. This Paris, however, was seedier, and simply a backdrop to the sad story that is Hadley's marriage. The story is told from her point of view, and given that she is merely Hem's first wife, it is no spoiler that the marriage does not end well. In fact, I spent much of the book hating Hemingway and wishing he would get his act together. He clearly loved Hadley, but alas, he loved himself more.


Zelda's story is similar in that she married a writer who became an alcoholic, but again, as history has shown, it is no spoiler that this marriage remained legally intact for the duration of Scott and Zelda's lives. Sadly, Zelda's story is one of mental illness, which is what ultimately separated Zelda and Scott (she was institutionalized multiple times and died in a fire at her last institution). 

Both of these women were sharp and opinionated, which seems to be what drew their husbands to begin with, but where Hadley seemed happy to live a domestic life, Zelda wanted a career of her own, whether it be writing or dance. When these women's dreams appeared to interfere with the wishes of the husbands, that is where the marriages go downhill.

What I loved about both of these books is the insight into these women's lives, despite these being fictionalized accounts. Women's stories are often brushed under the rug and lost to history, so it is intriguing to consider what the lives of these women must have been like, what their inner worlds must have felt like. And to me, that is the crux of a good story- a glimpse into another person's inner world.

If you haven't read either of these books, I highly recommend them both. They're easy to read, and even easier to get lost in. If you're like me and always looking for a good book recommendation, add these to your to-read list (and you can check out my reading list on Goodreads- or add me as a friend!).

And now, I would like to introduce you to someone else who enjoys reading, Allie of Call Me Sassafrass! I asked Allie a few questions about books and reading, and here are her answers:

What is your favorite book of all time?
My favorite book ever is The Book Thief by Markus Zusak. It's the story of a little girl adopted by a quirky German couple that hides a Jewish man during World War II. Also, the little girl learns to read and steals books from Hitler's book burnings. A book about books! Being German, I feel a connection to World War II literature but this novel especially doesn't feel boring and historical but is really interesting.

What is your favorite recent read?
Recently, I read The Light Between Oceans for the Busy Blogger's Book Club but I'm not going to talk about that one yet! You can read about it on the blog on the 15th and join the next round of the book club!

What do you like about reading?
I've always loved to read. I learned to read very young and have never stopped. I love the opportunities for learning that I get from reading. I do love to read some good memoirs or nonfiction (I recommend Beautiful Boy or The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks) and of course I learn from those. But there's also something to be said about exposing yourself to different lives that you might not have had a chance to understand otherwise. 


To get started, you can read Allie's advice for banishing a funky mood, read about the weird music she listens to, or how she intends to get happy in 90 days. Allie also does graphic design work, which you can check out here! Finally, you can also find Allie on Bloglovin, Twitter, and Facebook. Go show her some love!

And now tell me, what have you been reading lately? I'd love to hear from you in the comments below!


Fabulous Fridays: September 20

20 September 2013
Happy Friday, my friends! It's time to celebrate the end of the week and the beginning of the weekend!

To get the weekend started off right, let's talk about some of the things that made this week fabulous:

I spent a day at the coast.

I went to yoga class three times this week.

I had family time with a delicious brunch at home in celebration of my dad's birthday.

I got in lots of Lucy cuddles.

I had a yummy dinner with my mom, sister in law, and nephews, where I had to fight my oldest nephew for my brownie sundae (it was with malt gelato- as in Heaven).

I PAID OFF MY CAR!!!

All in all, not a bad week, though to be honest, it's been a bit stressful. Let's just say I'm glad to rest this weekend.

And now, before I sign off, I'd like you to meet another one of my lovely sponsors, Helen from Says Helen:

Says Helen is my little platform on the internet. It's a place for me to share the things I think are important, or awesome, or scary. Like you, Rachel, I realized that I was adhering to a script, trying desperately to write my life story. My biggest achievement to date is that I've been able to "let go" and just love and trust in the bigger picture. (Well, sometimes anyway!) I share my thoughts via Says Helen in the hopes that other people will read, witness and take up the challenge themselves. It's also a way for me to continue my writing practice. It's also also just a place to be silly sometimes!

1. When do you feel most confident? I'm confident when I'm strong (physically and emotionally), when people look to me for answers, when I'm running the show. I'm confident when I'm singing something I know really well. I'm confident when I can articulate a need and then fulfill it for myself, without hoping someone else will read my mind and fix it for me.



2. What do you like to do to “treat yo’self?” Like Aimee, I like to get my nails done -- and like Erika, I love a good massage (my current office has massage Thursdays, $1/minute chair massages! Rock on.) I also like to spend time with friends in the sunshine. Although I'm trying to move away from food & drink as a form of treats, I admit I like to have a glass of wine or a cookie for a job well done too!



3. What is the best compliment you have received lately? I just finished a reading of a musical that was really fulfilling. Many of the other performers involved were Equity actors (like the Big Leagues of theater), including one actor whom I'd seen and loved in a performance he did in one of the top theaters in my geographical area. The morning after our performance, I awoke to a Facebook message from him thanking me for the experience and that my "voice and delivery rocked." SO COOL.

To read more, check out A Giveaway in Celebration of my First BirchboxBeing a Part of a Musical Workshop, and An Open Letter to my Husband on our 5th Anniversary. Helen can also be found on Twitter and FacebookStop on by Helen's blog and say hello!

Tell me now, what has made your week fabulous? Do you have any plans to treat yo'self this weekend? I'd love to hear from you in the comments below!

Fabulous Fridays: Friday the 13th

13 September 2013
Are you superstitious? Because today is Friday the 13th, so you best avoid black cats and walking under ladders. I'm not entirely superstitious, but every now and then I'll knock on wood for good measure.

In any case, it's Friday! And that means it's time for me to share what made this week fabulous. I've had a pretty good week, minus a ton of stress at work today and horrible traffic on my way to yoga. But that's what a glass full of Bordeaux is for, right?

Right. Here are a few of the things that made this week fabulous:

This purple ice cream is rocking my world right now.

I went wine tasting with my parents in Hood River, and enjoyed this lovely view from the alpaca farm.

Pizza always makes me do a happy dance.

My sister made me a headband from the alpaca wool we picked up in Hood River.
My Snail Mail Collective package arrived.
Before I wish you a happy weekend, I would like to introduce you to Aimee, the blogger behind Dear Harper. Not only does Aimee take beautiful photos, but she writes from the heart.


A few good reads from Aimee's blog to get you started are: Why I Blog, A Letter to You, Yes, YOU, and 10 Ways to Beat the Gloomies (and Be a Generally Happier Person).

You can also find Aimee on Twitter and Facebook. Go check this wonderful lady out- she'll brighten your day!

And now I'd like to hear, what made your week fabulous? I'd love to hear from you in the comments below!

A Different Future

10 September 2013
Today I am linking up with Jenni for Blogtember. The prompt: a moment when your life took a turn.


I remember it so well. It really was a moment, a big moment. In reality, it was a deflation, when I was planning on inflation. A downturn instead of an upturn. Staying put instead of leaving.

When I was in college, my long-term plans were to get my bachelor's degree in French with a minor in Art History. I would then go on to grad school to earn first my master's, and then my doctorate, in Art History. In the distant future, I would become a professor of Art History, sharing my love of art and history with college students every day, and inspiring many more budding art historians.

During my senior year in college, I was dealing with a lots of new emotions that left me reluctant to make concrete plans for after college. On top of severe reverse culture shock, I had to deal with the first death in the family that I had ever experienced- my uncle's suicide. Throw in my dearest grandmother's swift death just a few short months later, and I was an emotional wreck. What do I do when I'm an emotional wreck? I decide to move back to France after college to teach English.

So my plans for grad school were pushed out, but they became more concrete as I had time to consider it. Upon my return to the States, I would get a job and then focus on taking a couple Art History classes in my free time and study for the GRE's. I would then apply to the best Art History programs that cover my chosen topic (which I still needed to decide). Easy-peasy.

Things went mostly according to plan. I took a Pre-Columbian Art History course, and a Women in Art History course during my free time. I volunteered at the Portland Art Museum. I totally rocked my GRE's. I decided on 5 Art History programs to which I applied, and awaited the results. In the end, only 2 of the programs accepted me. One was in Oregon, the other in Florida.

After much debate, I chose Florida. For one, I really wanted to work with the professor that I had been conversing with over the previous few months. She was incredibly nice and helpful, and her focus was the topic I wanted to study. Florida would also mean a change of scenery, something I was craving after living back home for two years.

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Doubt started creeping in when I noticed the economy starting to tank (this was back in 2009), and I began to question if Art History is a very good idea, economically speaking. I had also begun to question the political nature of a career in academics, especially after some frosty encounters with another Art History department. I'm the kind of girl who when she realizes something is a game, she gets out. I don't compete- it's one of the reasons I never played sports.

But the moment everything changed was the phone call I received the day before I sent in a check for a deposit on the place I would be living in Florida. My adviser-to-be called me to let me know that after Fall semester, she would be changing schools. She felt that she should let me know, so that if she was the reason I had chosen Florida, that I could consider my options and really think things over.

To sum up, all my creeping doubts were validated by this one phone call.

So I let Florida know that I would not be enrolling in their Art History program after all. I called my mom right away, in tears, telling her my decision. I told my co-workers and then my boss at the time, letting them know that I would not be leaving after all, that they would not be needing to find a replacement.

And that is how I ended up staying here, with no concrete plans for the future.

Before I let you go, I would love for you to get to know one of my lovely sponsors and blog friends, Belinda!


My name is Belinda, and I am the writer, traveller, coffee drinking lady behind the blog: Found Love. Now What? There I share tales of living abroad in the UK, being a new wife (and expat), adventures to castles and abroad while sharing thoughts on developing your own blogging community.  I’m not perfect by a long stretch, so I classify myself as a work in progress with a sprinkle of humor and grace. I’d love to get to know you, hop on over and say hello!


 When do you feel most confident? I think my confidence steams from when I am learning a new skill, and I actually get something right! Currently, I am on a mission to take my DSLR off the manual mode and when I get a small victory, I feel just a bit more confident in what I am trying to learn.
What do you like to do to “treat yo’self?” Other than my Friday Starbucks? Hmmm… I would say that I love treating myself to travel.  We live fairly moderate lifestyles, in order to allow us to travel.  From day trip adventures to a week in Paris, I love anytime I can get out of the house and explore something new!
What is the best compliment you have received lately?  That I am inspiration to fellow bloggers, which is incredibly humbling to me.
How has blogging impacted your life? In so many ways! Blogging has given me a creative outlet to share my story with my beloved readers while connecting with fellow bloggers with similar interests.  Living abroad, blogging has created a community of support that I have come to count on when I am having a rough day or even a small victory.
Which blog post that you’ve written is nearest and dearest to your heart?  Oh, that’s a tough question! It’s like picking a favorite out of 350+ puppies… alas.  Of all the posts I have done, I would have to say one that I really love would have to be 5 Lessons I Learned in Paris. It highlights a bit of our approach when traveling somewhere new.

As a starting point, check out these posts:
5 Years From Now
An Open Letter to My Husband
Royal Baby Fever {But Not Me}
A Harry Potter Moment in Edinburgh
Whelp Summer, It's Been Grand

You can also find Belinda on Twitter, Facebook, and Bloglovin'

Belinda is an absolute shining light in the blog community, and she has been an influence and inspiration to me. She is a genuine soul, and her vulnerability is what makes her one of my favorite bloggers. Also, she lives near lots of castles in Wales, so I am dying to go visit her! Check out her blog- I know you will like what you find!

Have you ever had a moment like this? One that defined the course of your future? I'd love to hear from you in the comments below!
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